

There is an utter lack of boundaries in evangelicalism and really all fundamentalist religions and establishing our boundaries is a big, big piece of the healing puzzle. And we discussed why sex and religion need to be completely disconnected from each other. We also talk about the homophobic monogamy-only paradigm of evangelicalism and how it manipulates its followers and keeps them stuck. We also discussed the deconstruction of evangelical Christianity and expose the roots of purity culture and evangelicalism and hint hint fear is a big root here.

We discussed some resources for informed sex education and healing the trauma of purity culture. We call out the abuse of purity culture and we discussed how people who are now in their twenties to mid forties are the generation most devastated about purity culture and are also the generation who are now becoming parents themselves and who are deciding that that’s not actually what they want for their kids and having to like relearn healthy sexuality, sex education, and being sex positive.

We described the sexual abuse that was, and is a purity culture and how the end result of purity culture was deep, shame, misinformation, and guilt and of course, trauma. And yes, we use the word sex cult for Christianity. We reveal how purity culture was the method by which evangelical fundamentalist Christianity wanting to control its members and those members sex lives. We also discussed how the absence of sex education fostered an environment for the harmful practices and beliefs of purity culture to spread. Her name is Blair and she is at talk purity to me on Instagram in this episode, Blair and I talk about what purity culture is and what the relatively new term exvangelical means. She is in my very lovely exvangelical Instagram community. I am super excited to be interviewing someone who I followed on Instagram for about a year. Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Good Sex by Nadia Bolz-Weber.
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Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women & How I Broke Free by Linda Kay Klein.expose the utter lack of boundaries in evangelicalism and why establishing boundaries is a big piece of the healing puzzle.discuss why sex and religion need to be disconnected completely.

talk about how the generation who was raised in purity culture is now choosing differently as parents themselves.discuss the homophobic, monogamy-only paradigm of evangelicalism and how it manipulates followers and keeps them stuck.expose the roots of purity culture and evangelicalism (hint: fear is a big one).discuss the deconstruction of evangelical Christianity.discuss resources for informed sex education and healing the trauma of purity culture.discuss how people who are now in their mid-20s to mid-40s are the generation most devastated by purity culture.share how the end result of purity culture was deep shame, misinformation, guilt, and trauma.describe the sexual abuse that was and is purity culture.reveal how purity culture was the method by which evangelical, fundamentalist Christianity wanted to control its members and those member’s sex lives.discuss how the absence of sex education fostered an environment for the harmful practices and beliefs of purity culture to spread.explain what purity culture is and what the relatively new term “exvangelical” means.She finds joy in helping others see the good in themselves and others and to live a life free from religious shame. She uses her experiences to help people of all faiths and beliefs find healing from the trauma of Purity Culture by debunking the culture’s bullshit. There is hope and healing for those affected by purity culture.īlair is a former evangelical and Purity Culture survivor living in the south. Survivors of purity culture report sexual dysfunction, feelings of shame and guilt about sex and sexuality, lack of education and information about sex and their own bodies. It has left sexual trauma and psychological damage in its wake. Purity Culture was a movement in the 1990s and 2000s that spread through Evangelical Christianity like wildfire.
